From Seeking Validation to Sharing My Gifts: My Journey to Impact
There was a time I wanted to be the center of attention. I was insecure and craved validation from others. Whether it was how my hair looked or what clothes I wore, I remember constantly talking about myself and how great I was to mask my insecurity.
Once I started learning Torah, especially Tanya, I shifted in the opposite direction. I stopped talking about myself and kept my life private. While I have no problem speaking with people and occasionally enjoy crowds, I realized I’m an introvert. This self-awareness came from mental work, pushing myself out of my comfort zone, and growing stronger mentally.
As an introvert, I have no problem doing my thing without distractions. I used to want invitations to all the parties and gatherings, but now it doesn't matter as much. While I may still get slightly annoyed if I'm not invited due to a personal relationship, I quickly switch my thoughts to being happy to focus on my work, family, and spirituality without distractions.
This approach worked while I was the CEO of the Galilee Culinary Institute. However, now that I want to spread my wings, share my gifts, and have a bigger impact, I realize something needs to change.
There are three reasons I now want to be the Jewish version of Tony Robbins and share my message and story:
1. Impact: I want to help people see the beauty in their lives, recognize their gifts, and have the energy to become their best selves. Coming from a secular household and becoming a Baal Teshuva (master of return), I have experiences that can guide others on a similar path. I remember questioning how I could compete with others working seven days a week while I only worked six. I've witnessed many blessings from following Hashem’s blueprint and want to share that it’s possible to balance spirituality with success in business, health, and personal dreams.
2. Legacy for My Children: I want my kids to see me for who I truly am. I hope this blog helps them, and future generations, understand what I stand for and what I strive to achieve. My greatest accomplishment would be for my children and grandchildren to surpass my achievements. By documenting my journey, I aim to leave a lasting legacy that helps them know me on a deeper level.
3. Representation: There are few observant motivational personalities on social media. While social media may not always be the holiest environment, many people have no clue about the beauty of being an observant Jew. This is a huge opportunity to connect with young Jewish professionals looking to be their best selves through a Jewish perspective.
And this is where I’m at today. I started reading a book by Rabbi Twerski, may his soul have an aliyah, and he shared two quotes: "A person is obligated to say, ‘The world was created for me.’" (Sanhedrin 36a) and "Be very, very humble." (Ethics of the Fathers 4:4).
This is what it’s all about. Knowing that G-d gave you a mission and the abilities needed to fulfill it. Then, you can ask yourself, “Am I fully utilizing these gifts?” The humility comes from knowing you have a long way to go, but with Hashem’s help, you will succeed one day at a time.
Here’s to becoming the best version of ourselves. Only up ☝️
Nachman
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